I have some of my loyal followers tell me that I seem a bit missing in action, and yes it's true. Between class and doing some projects on the side, along with my personal life, I'm finding it so difficult to do my daily blogs. This week I have 2 midterms to do along with a quiz and discussions in my classes, which are all due by Sunday. Lol! Aren't these professors wicked to throw all of this work on Memorial Day weekend? Since I'm trying to finally graduate this semester, I'm going to go all out and dedicate myself for the next couple of days to getting my work done and so that means the blogging will be slowed down, not to say I don't have anything to blog about, but I need to wait till about Tuesday to start to really post them. This weekend is a huge party weekend in Miami and I will be making some appearances at some of the dances along with the Best of the Best concert and the Celebrity Soccer Match. So stay tuned for those reviews and pics. Again, you know I'm so thankful for your continuous support and I thought I should let you be aware of what's going on, so you don't think I'm slacking. Hope to blog to you soon. Enjoy this holiday weekend! Patty loves you!
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Now here is my take..
"If you are in this situation and you are upset, and are crying foul play, then you have no one to blame but yourself. I don't want to come off harsh, but I'm only speaking from experience. Once you decide to continue sleeping with someone without a confirmation as to what your status is, then you can't assume that the two of you are an item. It would be naive to think that sex = relationships. Sex is sex and it should never be confused for commitment. If after months of dating and having sex, YOU need to ask that person, "what are we?" or "where is this relationship going?" If after asking those questions and the person is not interested in being exclusive and you are, then you need to move on. Too many times, we stay in these situations, hoping that the person will magically change their mind. Why buy the milk when you can get the cow for free? If I were the type of person that wanted a relationship, I would never want to stay with someone that is openly sleeping with other women. Not only does it hurt us emotionally, we risk the chance of getting sexually transmitted diseases. You have no idea if this person is using protection with the other women, and you don't want to risk your life playing the guessing game. As for me, I've been in a situation like this many times, once, I allowed my heart to take control and I ended up alone in the end, because this guy wanted no relationship and I assumed that because we would go on dates and had sex, then we were somehow officially a couple. Was I wrong! Next time around, the two of us both agreed that we didn't want a relationship but we enjoyed the sex and it worked out well for us. There were no feelings involved, just great sex. Neither one of us left the situation hurt, because we were completely honest with one another. My advice, if you are in a situation like this, DON'T MAKE A PIT STOP! Until a relationship is established, you are free to date whomever. Go out and meet people, you just may find that person that meet your qualities, and the part time lover will be no more. Hope this helps!"